Monday, May 25, 2009

Whatever


I cant close my mouth!!!!


When something is wrong, i just cant take it, it may be a problem, a situation, someone's behavior.


Well, if you are friends with someone, you do think of whatever happens to them should be good. You try to change them if they are into something bad, may be habits or affairs.


I tried changing a few people the way they behave, well, they started to get annoyed, and some stopped talking to me too! may be i am at fault sometimes. I wonder if the problem is with them or me. I try to do some good, explain people what the situation is, but, accepting the truth is the hard part, for anyone, so the conversation end up in a conflict, people don't like me for that. Well at least, something good is going to happen to them, I hope, even if they do not care. People take quite some time to realize what went wrong, they are no machines, I say.


Well, if I am the one to realize, I can say I was wrong and get on with things, but the question is do everyone have the courage ( well, that would be a big word, but I couldn't find anything else) to get back to things the way they were. An apology sometimes does work ( oh i like apologies heheheh, the bloody side yeah! ), that too if it is a girl, they work out in a big way.


I am not much of a leader, no body listens to me much, that is why i Blog :), I should start reading those Leadership books, maybe that would help to make people listen to me. The last one i started gave me a good night's sleep, in the morning I thought, may be that sleep is supposed to change everything, but that didn't change anything too... heheheh.... blah blah blah right!!!!!!! Need to write something more meaningful and purposeful at least the next time I write, this is what i think of, when i stop to write every time.


Listening to : Silence around me!

Reading Today : The Inheritance of Loss by Kiran Desai.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Some more thoughts!

Satisfaction


Dad always says : never keep something Pending


I am gonna say that to my kids too, keeping something in pending, any work, anything it may be will lead to tensions in last minute.


Need to thank dad for whatever he has done to me, without him I am not at all what I am today. Well, nothin achieved great yet, but yes, i am happy the way i am, as in, so many people are not at all happy with their lives, well me too - just a bit, but on the other hand I am pretty much happy of my life, which I can say is a better success.


Peace


Listenin to: My 28 day-old niece